Unconditional friend

February 26th, 2018 6:43 pm

You ever have those moments when you reflect for just a brief second, even though you are already in the moment? Meaning when you’re with someone and even though you’re listening to them, and in the midst of them talking and you’re hearing them;  you escape for just a millisecond, just to reflect on your relationship with this person? Well, yeah. I often have these.

Today is one of those days.

I had a great day with my best friend, Fernanda. She is this awesome person, whom I can be, Me.

Just Me. My true authentic self.

She knows this. I tell her all the time.

She is this amazing person who accepts my faults, fears and all my hopes and dreams. I can have my silent moments and she knows exactly what I’m thinking about. The one who I can be stupid with and be miserable with, and laugh until I tell her she needs to stop or I would pee myself.

We can talk for hours on end and go where ever the moods strike us. We can arrive anywhere and be the only ones there, and then watch the place fill up and then before you know it, its empty again, with us, still sitting there. Talking.

I love these moments. We have many of them.

I always thank God for finding a friend like her. To witness my life, other than my husband and children. Someone who is on the outside, but deeply rooted inside me.

Someone who isn’t jealous of me, or have hidden agendas. Someone who doesn’t judge me, but who is always accepting.

Someone who spoils me and who is forever, unselfish.

I have found a friend who loves me unconditionally, and I will be forever grateful for that gift.